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Saturday, March 21, 2015

Budget Wedding: Part 2


Guestbook
I salvaged a vintage mailbox from my parents garage, covered it with leftover spray paint from an old project and scuffed up the edges with sand paper. Then, I purchased unused, vintage postcards from eBay in assorted prints and stuck old stamps on them as a final touch. Upon arrival, before the ceremony, guests arrived wrote us messages on the postcards and later placed them into the mailbox as they exited the church.



Mason jars
Mason jars are a funny thing. They were really popular beginning at the turn of the century as people used them to preserve their food. As time wore on and much of our food became preserved and processed through grocery stores, their popularity dwindled to include hobbyists and rural families with large gardens. Today, Jarden produces these things nearly at the speed of light and they can’t stay on store shelves. I lucked out on obtaining my own. My parents had 6-8 boxes of these in their garage from my mother’s canning days and some leave-behinds from our homes previous owner. A little elbow grease had them looking like new and saved me some cash. For those pursuing the use of these fabulous fillers, I suggest asking relatives, grandparents especially, and letting them know that their use is as good of a gift as any!


Recessional Sachets
As if I didn't have enough to do, I decided to buy a vintage book, rip out the pages, and sew them together to make sachets for the recessional birdseed. I was successful at making 300+ sachets and stamped them with a variety of keys and monograms in gold ink (this tied into the keys from the boutonnieres and monogram at the reception). I finished them off with bakers twine to keep the seed from spilling out everywhere. They were adored by guests and the seed and any shredded paper was biodegradable. On this project I spent $3 for the vintage book, $2 for the baker's twine and used other on hand materials to finish the job. The handy carrier and produce basket below came from my parent's garage.


Unity ornament
Until the week before our wedding I wrestled with what we’d do as our unity activity during the ceremony. I thought the sand/bottle combo to be overdone and I didn’t want to be anywhere near fire/candles. We debated doing a unity cross, but for $100+ didn’t think it was that meaningful to us. So off I went to Hobby Lobby and picked up a 4-pack of clear ball ornaments. I decorated one with our wedding date and scraps from my wedding dress and made a little stand for it out of styrofoam, felt and bouquet pins. Total, I invested about $9. We then gathered some birdseed leftover from our recessional sachets and grass seed from the first time we seeded our yard at our new home. I bottled both seeds separately in vintage bottles, had our mothers walk them to the altar, and we poured them into our ornament during the ceremony. Didn’t it turn out great? Make your own with my earlier tutorial.




Ceremonial References
We used 317Limosines for transportation from our wedding to reception. When obtaining a quote, I was significantly under quoted. 317 stepped up to the plate and honored the quote anyway. We paid somewhere around $300 for an $800+ limo ride. Limos are tricky. If you were to reserve 3 hours, plan their drive-time to and from your pick-up and drop-off locations too. That means a 3 hour reservation may only really have 1 hour of drive time. Also ask for an audio jack/USB hookup. That'll keep your passengers happy. And finally, tip your driver before you hop in. That shows your gratitude for their time.

Our florist was ahead of the game and ordered large baby's breath buds for us without even asking. They provided the filler flowers for the mason jars and even delivered them to the church and reception site. Total, I spent about $200 on this filler, but thought it really added something to the pew ends and reception tables. When getting quotes around town, I was sure to share pricing of florists with one another so that they could attempt to beat it. Guess what, Gooseberry Flowers did just that and I saved over $100! 

A string trio was a nice touch at the ceremony. I hired college students who are part of the Deoc Ensemble. They were very reasonably priced, dependable and sounded fabulous. My guests commented afterward how wonderful they were. You can read my full review of them on their Facebook page.

Our photographer was Jessica B. Photography out of Greencastle, Ind. She took our engagement and wedding photos and was wonderful. We received our printing rights so we were able to reproduce our images as we wanted. I do photography at Miss Cara Photography and my business model is much like Jessica's - that's what drew me to her services. Here is a review I submitted for her work:

"In early 2013, my fiancé and I began interviewing photographers for our engagement session and wedding day. I contacted Jessica, as she had been recommended to be by a friend for being easy to work with, creative and affordable. Plus she waived printing rights so we could print any of our photos whenever we wanted. In our first meeting with Jessica we both felt at ease with her personality and comfortable with her creative offering. Before we parted ways, we put down a deposit and secured our wedding date.
Eight months later we met with Jessica to photograph our engagement session. She was punctual, prepared and down for all of our crazy ideas. After our session our photos were edited in a timely fashion and we were able to use them for our wedding promotions. They were of great quality and represented both our love and personalities well.Leading up to the wedding, Jessica collected our timeline, coordinated her personal timeline and double checked our preferences. On our big day, she was again punctual, prepared and managed our time well. She coordinated our large family for photos by being swift and concise, which was appreciated as we fought to stay on schedule. Her photographs were representative of our detailed day, both staged and posed as well as photojournalistic. She even stayed later than we initially agreed so that she could capture a very unique moment at our reception. Our wedding photos were available from Jessica shortly after our wedding – nothing near the wait of most professional photographers. The images were edited, sized and ready for reproduction and we did not have to contact her for any further adjustments.

We have not had a need for a photographer in the six months that we’ve been married, but my husband and I will certainly use Jessica B. Photography as we grow our family and are in need of a photographer."



Thanks for stopping by the Humble Hammock! What was your favorite tip or craft from this post?
Cara

Sunday, March 8, 2015

Budget Wedding: Part 1

In 2012 my boyfriend proposed. It was everything I could have imagined: romantic, original, thoughtful and well planned. Nearly the week after my left hand got a little heavier, I was already creating a budget and trying to decide what our “splurge items” would be. 

I’m a cheap person. Not the kind that is featured on Extreme Cheapskates, but I’m money conscious and never buy without coupons, sales and research. Know that going into this post… I buy things for way less than the average shopper. That may help you understand that wedding planning was a fun game for me. I wanted to do it for a record low price but not let it show though the quality of our wedding.

By popular request, I am sharing my wedding saving tricks in a three post series. This post will be about pre-wedding items. Post two will be about the wedding and post three about the reception. 

Let it be known that when I say “wedding saving tricks” that these hacks are CHEAP. I mean, so cheap that you probably won’t believe it. Trust me, it’s all true and if you follow my experiences I’m certain you’ll spend 50-75% less than you would doing it through boutiques, magazines and high end wedding retailers.

So let me start with my first bit of advice.  SET. A. BUDGET. You can even use this handy pre-made excel sheet to keep things on track. 

Second bit of advice, PAY. AS. YOU. GO. Don’t let your debt build. Treat your wedding like a car payment or mortgage and make payments on it up until your wedding. Trust me, our honeymoon in was so much more enjoyable knowing it was paid in full and we weren't paying on the trip when we got home.

Now, LET'S GET TO THE GOOD STUFF!

Save the Date Postcards, Invitations and Wedding Programs
Britny, a friend of mine, donated her design skills to make our custom save the date and invitation.  A local vendor I had used through work gave me a discount to print these pieces. By discount I mean the save the dates were free and the invitations were about $60.





I wrapped these in baker's twine and added a vintage tag with our registration information. I stuck them into these well made, but inexpensive teal envelopes and mailed them at a standard stamp rate. I didn't do RSVP's but instead, used the free service through TheKnot. I uploaded an .xls sheet and guests could update their attendance IF their name matched that of my sheet. For those using this option, I would detail how your guests should enter their name to RSVP as some of my guests claimed they couldn't RSVP because they weren't on the list. In reality, they were typing their name differently than I had listed it on my uploaded .xls


                                              



I created these wedding programs but didn't tint them to match the other pieces because I printed them on a vintage metallic paper from JoAnn Fabrics. I couldn't find the paper online, but it was about $8-$10 for 250 sheets (don't forget the 40% off one regularly priced item!). The paper was 8.5x11 in size and I printed two programs per one sheet at Staples. I had them cut as well.

Handmade bouquets, boutonnieres and corsages
One trip to Hobby Lobby in the off-season for the flowers I wanted, scored materials bouquets, boutonnieres and corsages. My friend Whitney, helped me with this project - she was married and therefore, knew a thing or two. She suggested buying bundles of greenery, filler flowers and leaves and pulling them apart to reassemble in the bouquets. It was so much cheaper to do this and allowed for the utmost customization... even though my mom said my leaves looked like bugs ate them... they were just what I wanted :) When it was all said and done I spent ~$100 on all of the flowers, filler, leaves, ribbon to wrap, flower tape and keys (from Ebay, used on the men's boutonnieres). That broke down to $5 per person (including parents, grandparents, ring bearers and the bridal party). Yes, really. 


                                    

                                    

The dress, veil and earrings
I didn't want to go to boutiques and try on dresses. I knew what I wanted and I was sure I could find it cheaper online. I'm short, so no matter where I was to buy, I knew alterations would be in order. So, online I went and I bought my dress. It was so comfy, fitting to my personality AND easy to alter. A family member (Suzan, you're the best!) adjusted it to a perfect fit as my wedding gift.



It was $199. Yes, really. Don't believe me? See it here. The belt was my splurge item at $56. Since the dress came with a sash, I had the sash combined with the belt's appliqué to get the look I wanted. My earrings were a Christmas gift from my parents between our engagement and wedding and cost $10. The birdcage veil was $20 and the fascinator came with another veil purchase from Ebay. The veil from Ebay wasn't what I wanted, but the fascinator was spot on and was only $2. 


Groom and groomsman attire were rented from Jim's Formal Wear. Our suits were a tad pricey at $150 each, but the groom got his free. Unfortunately we were limited as to where we could rent in the small town near our wedding. Didn't they look dapper?


The Alfred Sung bridesmaid dresses varied by price online, but the girls purchased them at different times of year to obtain higher savings. They wore nude shoes of their choosing and after a full day of shopping, we found their necklaces at Burlington Coat Factory for $7 each.



Gifts
Bridesmaids gift were purchased from the Coach outlet right after Christmas. I was able to get five Coach wristlets less than $30 each. I also made them homemade sugar lip scrub to use before the wedding. The jars were recycled mini-jam jars and looked so cute with the rest of our decor.


Groomsmen gifts were a custom purchase from this Etsy shop. I wanted something the gentlemen could use and not just place on a shelf. The listing I purchased is no longer available, but for comparables, click here. 

Mother's gifts were custom engraved spoon bracelets from this Etsy shop. They were affordable, long lasting, and a great way for our mother's to cherish our special day.

Thanks for stopping by the Humble Hammock! What was your favorite idea or craft from this post?
Cara

Sunday, March 1, 2015

Thrift: Norman Rockwell

I went thrifting a couple of years ago and found this framed Norman Rockwell artwork titled School's Out. It was a print of course, one of many, but Rockwell's work has always resonated with me and I knew right away that I would take it home. 

This print (framed with glass) was $5. It sat in a closet for over a year, as I wasn't sure where I was going to put it, but it ended up in our guest bedroom (more on that decor later) hanging off center from a rocking chair in the corner. If ever my husband and I have a disagreement, I beeline straight for the garage, grab a hammer and nail and look for something to hang in the house. This was product of one of those instances.

School's Out, 1959  - Norman Rockwell 

No more than a week after hanging School's Out, did I find Missing Tooth. It too was framed and even had young school girls that would have likely been running in the initial school themed image I'd already commandeered. I paid $15 for it (more than my usual thrifting threshold), but after a quick Google search while shopping, found that both of these pieces together would be worth more than I paid. Consider it an investment... :)



Here they are in all of their mismatched frame glory. I love that they are alike and different and how they work together in the room. 



Which is your favorite?


Thanks for stopping by the Humble Hammock! Do come back :)
Cara